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UNDERSTANDING, A
MAJOR KEY TO MARITAL
BASIS (I PET 3:1-7)
During courtship, it’s not easy to know the person the
way he/she should be known. Marriage is a risk; you won’t ever know everything
about the person before commit yourself into marrying him/her. So don’t say
"Well, I’m still trying to check out”. This is why dating is unbiblical.
Marriage is not an America
idea, neither is it an Africa tradition,
marriage came from God, and he has given us the pattern so dating is not
biblical. Let me try this, go out with her a little, study her, she doesn’t
suit me, let me pick another, "you will do that and one day the devil will trap
you with someone. Marriage is a risk, just trusting the Lord that this is the
person you have brought to me; I believe we will make it together. That is what
marriage is all about, there is a labor that you do to understand your spouse.
I always tell women that one of the greatest
breakthrough a woman can have in marriage is to understand to the level that
she knows what he hates and avoid it like a plague and also knowing what he
loves and go extra mile to do such. It is a major breakthrough. The day you
understand what he hates and you begin to avoid it like a plague, you have 100%
breakthrough, because one of the things that a man detests the most, which is
the cause of many family squabbles is when a woman continuously does the very
things that her husband doesn’t like. The moment you begin to do that,
something begins to unlock favor and goodwill from that man’s heart to your direction
as a wife. Don’t ever forget that; put in every effort to understand your
spouse.
Labor, make the effort to understand your spouse;
avoid what he hates and do what he loves. The husband should understand his
wife and gently lead her in accomplishing tangible things for God. Above all,
one things you must understand about your spouse is who he/she is before God;
this will help you to have the right input to the destiny of your spouse. You
cannot really relate with somebody accurately (by being a blessing to teach
others) until you know the person is before God.
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